Hope for Families – Real Talk with Amber Hollingsworth

When your family needs more than encouragement

One of the hardest parts of having a loved one who struggles with addiction isn’t the late nights or the worry—it’s the silence.So many families are told to “set boundaries” or “practice tough love,” but they’re rarely given practical advice on how to do that. Instead, they’re left guessing at the “right” thing to say or do—and often end up stuck in patterns of resentment, blame, or distance.

That’s why I loved my recent conversation with Amber Hollingsworth. Amber has been working with families for nearly 20 years, and she’s not afraid to be direct. She calls it her “bossy approach.” And honestly? It’s refreshing. Families don’t need more platitudes—they need someone willing to tell them what works.

In this episode of The Sober Edge, Amber shares how to:

  • Communicate in ways that shift the dynamic without escalating conflict
  • Stop walking on eggshells and still protect the relationship
  • Avoid the cycle of resentment by focusing on what you can control

And here’s something that really caught my attention: Amber has developed Amber AI, a groundbreaking tool that gives families access to her advice in real time. Imagine having a compassionate, experienced guide in your pocket—someone who helps you find the words in those fragile, high-stakes moments.

I believe this kind of resource could be a game-changer, offering families not just hope, but practical, immediate support in situations where every word matters.

If you’re supporting someone you love—or simply want to understand the family side of recovery more deeply—this episode will leave you with insight, tools, and maybe even a little relief that you don’t have to figure it all out alone.

. Interested in connecting with Amber? Here’s where to find her:

Put The Shovel Down YouTube Channel

Website: Hope for Families Recovery Center

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