What We Really Bring Into The New Year

December 31 often feels psychologically loaded.


There’s pressure to reset, plan, fix, and become someone new — especially after a long holiday season.

In this reflective year-end episode of The Sober Edge Podcast, Teri explores a different approach to crossing the threshold into a new year: not changing who you are, but seeing who you already are with greater clarity.

Drawing from nervous system science, identity-based change, and the lived experience of alcohol-free growth, this episode invites you to slow down, reflect, and consciously choose what you carry forward — without forcing or over-planning.

In this episode, we explore:

  • Why the brain doesn’t actually reset on January 1st

  • Prediction, patterning, and why change feels harder than it “should”

  • Outcome goals vs identity-based change

  • How nervous system patterns shape behavior more than motivation

  • The idea of curating your life — choosing what belongs on the shelf

  • Honoring roots, resilience, and wisdom instead of chasing reinvention

  • How alcohol-free living reveals who you already are becoming

Reflection from the episode:

“What truth about myself do I know I want to keep — without changing it, fixing it, or editing it?”

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